The "cheerleader effect", reffered to in the popular TV show how i met your mother, is a theory that being in a group gives the illusion of being more attractive. The author of the article Gauging the "Cheerleader Effect" discuses psychology, and what attracts us to particular people.The article suggests that walking in a group may actually be a good dating strategy. The text shows you how many people feel towards one another, and how we judge based on not only on physical appearance, but also the appearance of those around us. (hence the name; because cheerleaders often walk around in a group)
The author proclaims that "When shown in a group (whether big or small), the same person was rated as more attractive then when he or she appeared alone in a picture." This clearly shows that if you are alone in a photo, you will be judged more harshly than when you are with others. This seems rather unfair to me. Is it right that part of our initial assessment of a stranger is based on the looks of not only the appearance of the person him/herself, but of those AROUND HIM/HER? It seems that the author of the article is almost advising us to move around in, groups as to appear more attractive. I think that it is unfair, that we judge people in this way, and that it should not be encouraged.
On their own, an observer is able to spot all our faults and physical shortcomings, however, when in a group, the brain blurs each person together. "The researchers think that the brain is melding together the groups facial features into a composite average, mentally Photoshopping out all then idiosyncrasies that become obvious when examining just one persons face." We can conclude from this that the brain does not view each person as an individual, rather, it view each member of the group as only part of a whole. This is not at all a good thing, and not something that we should be taking advantage of. Instead of focussing on individual characteristics, we are only trying to see who looks better than those around them in a group. This is an instinct that, while natural, is not something we should use as a dating method. We should remember that everyone has their shortcomings, thats what makes us HUMAN. Perhaps this 'cheerleader effect' was once used to find the best available mate in a group of women, but today, in a more civilized age it is important to look at the individual.
Monday, January 20, 2014
Sunday, January 5, 2014
edited Reading response
ELA CTQ
Number 5
Reading Response
-Edited
In life threatening situations, people show
their true selves. The book 'No Safety in Numbers' by Daynba Lorentz is an
exciting book, which takes place in a mall in the suburbs. On a busy Saturday a
biological bomb in found in one of the mall's air ducts. The mall is locked
down. Soon food and supplies begin to run out, and the people turn against one
another. Although these people tend to form small, tightly knit groups, the
groups themselves are in constant competition with everybody else in the mall.
Early on in the book, when there is still food and the bomb isn’t such a huge
problem, the people begin to form groups. For example, Ryan and his football
team join up almost instantly. Mike says, " Stick with us!" and reassures
Ryan that he will watch his back. This shows that even early on in the book,
people begin to look out for one another and protect each other. These little
groups are very tightly knit, and difficult to enter.
However, these groups are ONLY looking out for themselves. When Ryan is beaten
up by some boys (over some food), his group comes after the people who beat him
up. Ryan's friend Mike says, "you mess with my family, you mess with
me." Although this sounds endearing, this little vengeance fight results
in one boy with a broken nose, and a few others unable to walk. This shows how
the groups, although they watch out for each other, are in constant competition
with everyone else in the mall.
The groups
are also very distanced from other people. They are very unwilling to help
others. When the flu breaks out in the mall, for example, Ryan saw a family
being forcefully detained because they had some symptoms of the flu. When the
little boy “began to sob uncontrollably,” Ryan wants to help. But Mike (the
group ‘leader’) insists that they only watch out for themselves. Even though
these people were in obvious need of help, Ryan’s group didn’t want to risk any
confrontation. This seems incredibly selfish to me.
In these types of situations, people show that deep down, they only care about
themselves. All they want is their own survival. Although they may have formed
small groups, they were in NO way united. In some cases, the groups fought
against one another even if they needed to be working together. This book does
not envision teamwork; rather, it shows how difficult it is for people to
be selfless when their lives are in danger.
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Books I've Read (Starting This Summer)
- A Separate Peace, September 17 2013
- Endymion, September 15 2013
- Push, September 12 2013
- the Grapes of Wrath, August 2013
- Animal Farm by George Orwell, August 2013
- the Great Gatsby, July 2013
- Unbroken, July 2013
- Lord of the Flies, July 2013
- The chocolate war, June 2013